Month: November 2022

Happy Halloween! (*Late)

Happy Halloween! (*Late)

 

It was our first Halloween in our new house! We left all of our big props in Pennsylvania - gave them away to a local Halloween lover - and so we needed to start anew!

A skeleton sitting on a giant pumpkin head in the garage. The skeleton is holding a little skeleton on its lap. There are more pumpkins on the floor as well.
Getting ready for Halloween!

 

We had a deck out back that was for a pool that has been relocated to a shed at my sister’s house, so we started removing the deck. The neighbor was very happy, bonus! Gabe was really happy with all the different types of screws the deck was built with. As he’s been removing it, he’s out there with a drill in each hand, and sometimes it’s a different type of screw so he still has to change the bits. He’s really loving it*! *Sarcasm in use.

Selfie wearing my plague doctor mask with blacklights behind me. Head covered by a cloak.
Hi! Halloween is the best.

 

Anyway, because we were destroying a deck, we had lots of scrap wood. So… we made a few things. Giant paper mache pumpkin man:

Paper mache pumpkin man. Made of wood, so the legs and arms are spindly, and black paper mache to cover the wood. The head is a big orange pumpkin. Our house is in the background. The sky is blue. There is a willow tree behind him as well that is partially in the shot.
Pumpkin man!!

And a coffin:

An open wooden coffin. The lid wasn't finished yet. It's in the backyard on some cardboard having been spray painted brown with some black as well.
Yes, we are the normal neighbors. Totally normal.

We also found an old chair behind the garage that had been left by the previous homeowners, so we put a dude on the roof of the garage, and also built gallows to hang baskets with skeletons and bones in:

Looking up over the garage. A skeleton in a chair with its feet up on the garage. It's to be drinking an Elysian Night Owl beer and is wearing a Pagely shirt I got from a recent job. To the left is a black wooden gallows with a basket hangng off of it. In the basket is a small skeleton sitting down with a leg out.
Yes. Totally normal.

 

All in all, a pretty successful first attempt at Halloween in our new home. And everything comes apart. Except the coffin, but maybe we’ll use it for storage or something? 

 

We also went through a variety of costumes to make sure the neighbors knew we were serious:

Gabe and I dressed up. He's wearing a mask that's like a skull with pipes coming out of it - he calls it his Mad Max mask. I'm wearing a hooded shirt with white tree-like patterns and a face covering that's the bottom half of a skull.
Normal neighbors doing normal things.

Me dressed as a skeleton but with my eyes showing. I'm wearing a top hat that is supposed to be a witch doctor hat with feathers and bones on it. I'm looking at the camera judingly.
Day 2? 3? ...or normal.

Halloween night was not super busy, but I believe that’s because another neighborhood in our area has put it out that they are the Halloween place. That’s fine. I have leftover Reese’s still. Winning!! Yes, we do full-size candy bars. That was one of my goals in life: Be the house that hands out full-size candy bars.

Pumpkin man holding Arthur's leash. Arthur is dressed like a spider and looking at the camera like he wants to be somewhere else. There are also pumpkins in front of pumpkin man now, and a table with a halloween tablecloth and more pumpkins and candy.
All set up! We were told trick or treat is like 4pm to next week or something.

 

Done.

Edie and Arthur out for a walk. Edie is wearing her butterfly wings, Arthur is in the Halloween t-shirt. We're walking down a road and the Sandias are in view straight ahead. The sky is blue. Again. Sheesh.
Walkies ftw!!

To catch you up on my health - we found a nurse practitioner in the area to see for a regular doctor. It’s a monthly fee, but then you have access to the PA or a doctor 24/7. We’ll still have to keep regular insurance too because I also found an oncologist at the University of New Mexico. She listened to all my concerns and I had an MRI on Sunday. Yes, Sunday. All appears to be well except my neck is getting old or something.

Pumpkin Man by night. All lit up with blacklights and orange and purple and green small lights. Mostly orange. Ready to roll!
Pumpkin Man all dressed up for the night.

Obviously I know how to read MRI reports very well. Anyway, no metastasis is always a good thing, and hopefully I’ll be ‘in the clear’ in 2023 from triple negative breast cancer. It’s most likely to reoccur within 3 years of diagnosis. 

Selfie of me and my sister. She's wearing a big glittery half skull mask and a top hat. I'm wearing a steampunk palgue doctor mask and a cloak.  Behind us is the other gallows hanging over the garage. It just is full of bones in the bottom and sticking out.
The reason we are here. My sister. Yay!

Almost there.

Gabe holding Edie beagle. She's just a beagle, but he's wearing a half mask that's a red devil with horns. Not pictured: Arthur who did not like the mask At All.
Yes. We are 100% normal.

 

I also had acupuncture on my neck and it seemed to help a lot, so I’m thankful for that and will perhaps go again soon. Did you know acupuncture was illegal in the United States until 1973? Crazy. I highly recommend it. It’s not going to cure cancer, but it has helped all of my issues with pain to date.

 

I’m working on a blog about my friend Lucy. We had the same type of cancer, except hers wasn’t caught until it had metastasized and was stage 4. She died at the beginning of October, and I’ve been trying to work through how to honor her as best I can. Words seem not enough, but I’ll do my best.

Selfie of me wearing a shirt that has skeleton hands holding pumpkins where my breasts used to be. I'm wearing a sugar skull face covering and have on a bike helmet. Yes, I dressed up to ride bikes!
Going for a bike ride. Dressed totally normal.

 

Hopefully I’ll get that done before Thanksgiving.

Full Halloween setup. Blacklight in the coffin in the foreground, Pumpkin Man in the background surrounded by headstones and jack-o-lanterns. Blacklights, scary skeletons floating on the house. We have fun.
Boo!

Gabe dressed in his half mask, a hat, a vinyl apron, holding an axe, standing in front of the Halloween decor with a blacklight at night.
Welcome to our normal home!

Hug the people you love every day. Promise me you’ll do that. And vote in every election. We did! Woot!

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